“THAT’S IT! I'M DONE WITH THIS ***&^ job!” ALAN YELLS AS HE STORMS OUT OF THE OFFICE.

Guess what happened next! Alan gets promoted! Read on to find out how!

Alan rushes out of his office to his favorite pastry shop. Desperate for comfort food after not receiving a promotion, he orders his favorite chocolate éclair. The employee informs him they are cheaper by the dozen. “Yes, give me all twelve!” Alan exclaims.  The employee observes his frustration and gives him a baker’s dozen instead. 

Alan sits down in the back of the shop and inhales his comfort food.  Once done, Alan bends over in pain and grumbles, “Oh, God, too much!”  Alan’s stomach is killing him. Despite this, he feels relief from having satisfied his immediate desire. Alan returns to his office and reflects, “I’ve been passed over for a promotion God knows how many times. I work hard, bring good ideas to the table, and am a team player. I just don’t know why I’m being passed over.”

A co-worker who comes by to provide solace says, “Alan, there isn’t always rhyme or reason for who gets promoted.” Alan doesn’t like that answer. “I won’t fall into despair!” He proclaims to himself.

Alan decides that his only hope is to look at his situation in a new way. He ponders, “I have a highly specialized role here. Maybe I’m not communicating how vitally my role supports the company’s vision.” Alan comes up with an action plan to communicate this.

One year later...

Alan and his co-workers are at his favorite pastry shop celebrating his promotion. The shop employee asks if he would like another éclair. He smiles and replies, “I’m satisfied. Thank you.” 

Slowing down to summon up your resilience and gain a new perspective can go a long way! 

REFLECTION

Consider a situation where you feel frustrated and are not succeeding. How might you look at the situation in a new way that supports achieving your goal?

Tip: Take some deep breaths and be patient as you reflect! 

Blessings,

Marcie